"There's a certain maturity level that comes with wanting a family and wanting a long-lasting relationship," the day trader tells PEOPLE

Grant Ellis has certain qualities he's looking for in a wife.The premiere of The Bachelor's 29th season is days away and the leading man has already made his intentions clear. He doesn't want to relive his "most painful experience" and plans to find "a wife.

Grant Ellis is looking for love during season 29 of The Bachelor, and he knew going into the process that his future wife would not be a gossip. “It's really easy for somebody to tell you what they want,